On our first date, he took me to a restaurant where his ex-wife worked as a waitress. He deliberately dropped food for her to clean up, insulted her, and left no tip. As we left, I whispered, “I’m so sorry,” but she laughed and said, “Don’t be! In two hours, you’ll wish you’d stayed here with me.” Two hours later, his phone rang nonstop, and when he finally read a message, his face turned white. The next morning, his ex-wife texted me to explain: her coworkers had secretly recorded months of his cruel behavior, documenting every insult and humiliation. That night’s footage gave her lawyer the evidence needed to pursue a harassment case, seek a restraining order, and reopen their custody agreement. His panicked messages were from his own lawyer, warning him that things had changed. She hadn’t laughed out of bitterness; she had finally found a way to stand up for herself. I texted her, “You’re the strongest person I’ve ever met.” She replied, “Kindness is patience. And patience always wins.”…